Thursday, December 8, 2011

Favorite Things Party


For December's book club, we (again) had a "Favorite Things Party". This year Jilene Ray hosted a WINTER WONDERLAND themed party.The snowflake sugar cookies and the brownie bite pops were AWESOME! Everyone brought one of their favorite treats/snacks to share and a favorite item for the gift exchange.


We also played the game we did last year, "What's Yours Like?" (favorites version). We took the opportunity to go around the room and say WHY it was our favorite. That added an additional element of fun.


With our book club leader moving, the torch has been passed. Hopefully we will continue to carry on as usual. I always look forward to going and hanging out with these women.

Tuesday, December 6, 2011

Happy Birthday Rylee!

On December 6th, Rylee turned 15!

Since her birthday fell on a Tuesday, she was gone ALL day. It's her regular Tuesday schedule; she leaves at 6:45am and doesn't get home until 9:30pm (Cantus choir practice and babysitting)! So she opened her gifts, when she got home, but we decided to do her birthday dinner and cake/ice cream the next day.
She received a jar from Treyson...

..full of smiles.

Just in case she needs one, she now has a whole jar full. So cute..totally his own idea that Taylee helped him execute.



Isn't this chair funny? I found it at Goodwill and HAD to get it for her. She loves shoes... especially high heels. I thought it would be perfect for her room.

For her birthday dinner, she requested fettucini alfredo, as well as a rainbow cake and "Moose Tracks" icecream.



She was trying to freak me out the other day by saying,

"Mom, do you realize that at this time next year, I could be going to Sweethearts.... and then Prom?!"

I tried to keep it cool and answered,

"Ya.... I'm sooo excited. That will be soooo much fun!"

Really I can't wait to help her think of fun, creative ways to ask guys to dances or answer when they ask. And honestly, really I am a little nervous about it too. :)

Monday, December 5, 2011

Annual Ison Christmas FHE 2011

The first Monday of December meant it was time for our Annual Ison Christmas FHE.
That was also the day the my friend Krissi flew in to visit for the week. Yay!!! Towels and scarves were passed out to the kids, so all could participate in the reading of Luke 2. Our scriptures were running late, so Tyrel filled in with the scriptures off his phone. Technology can be awesome.



After reading the Christmas story, we sang Christmas carols and played bells.

As we ended our singing we heard the familiar jingle of bells... Santa had found us again!

Abree received "squinkies" (little animals/characters to collect and play with) from Santa.

Treyson received a headlamp flashlight.


Arielle and Kevin were also surprised by a gift in Santa's bag.


Rylee and Taylee both graduated to the "big kid" (adult) game... the white elephant gift exchange. One of the favorite gifts was Arielle's homemade bread. She wrapped it in cute kitchen towels and put them in re-usable grocery bags. There were 3 in the game and I was determined to get one. When Grandma Ison got one, no one would steal it, so then there were only 2. I was one of the lucky ones who ended up with one in the long run. Yay!


Another gift that got a lot of attention was the "Light Her Fire" and "Light His Fire" relationship cassette tapes. These have been re-occurring gifts for the last 2 years... going on 3. We've been assured that they have good material and would benefit any marriage relationship.


I originally bought them 2nd hand, thinking they might be good, but never listened to them. When the Ison FHE came up, I thought they would be the perfect white elephant gift. Will they show up next year? I'll let you know. :)

Saturday, December 3, 2011

Traditions Weekend

Instead of alternating Thanksgiving and Christmas between families, the Smullin family decided to create a "Traditions Weekend". The first weekend of each December, we'll get together and celebrate the best of both holidays....



A Thanksgiving type feast,

Grandma Smullin's famous Christmas breakfast,

(including sliced oranges sprinkled with powdered sugar)

Gift exchanges,

Games,

and lots and lots of snacks and fun.






One of my favorite parts was the cousin gift exchange. Each cousin made a gift for their cousin gift exchange partner. It was great to see all the homemade goodies. I loved how excited and grateful they were. There were some awesome gifts; wooden swords, rubberband guns, wooden super hero cut-outs, cute headbands, flower clips, painted canvas logos, etc.

The adults exchanged gifts too. Our instructions were to buy a gift from the dollar store, or find something around your house, that reminded you of you exchange partner. This was also really fun. Some gifts were funny, others were nice. I received birthday candles...because I like to party, of course. Jason received some Utah Jazz items because, you know..he LOVES the Jazz. Teresa's gift from Julia had the best story.

Melissa (Jason's sister) and Brandon got married in LasVegas. Teresa/Jared, Mom/Dad and JC/Julia all went to be a part of it. As they were shopping for souvenirs, Teresa found a bracelet made of dice. She loved it and bought it! --Later, Teresa was reading a magazine about travel. The magazine said that buying a dice bracelet from Vegas was one of the tackiest things you could do. Julia heard about this and liked to tease Teresa about her "high end" taste in jewelry. Soooo, for Teresa's gift Julia made a necklace and earrings out of a ribbon and bobbypins. So when she gave Teresa the gift she said something like, "This is because we know you like high-end jewelry." --We all laughed and loved it. Teresa wore it for the rest of the night. The girls kept coming up to her and asking, "Can I borrow a bobbypin?" It was awesome!

Wish I would have gotten a picture of it. Actually I wish I had taken more pictures in general. Just wasn't in the mood... too much going on I guess.

Friday, December 2, 2011

In the Ditch

We got out of town late, when heading to Utah, for our "Traditions Weekend" with Jason's family. (It was my fault... sorry family.)

Our "Traditions Weekend" was at the Olsen's new home in Lewiston, UT. Never having been there before, we followed the GPS on Jason's phone for direction. After getting off at Tremonton, the GPS started taking us along some back highway roads which seemed dark and abandoned at the late hour. At one point the GPS said we had missed our turn, but recalculated and took us onto a little country road.


The kids had just drifted off to sleep.



We turned onto the little country road and quickly found it to be (what felt like) pure ice. We were creeping along, but soon started to gain speed because of the incline. Our van started sliding a little, Jason corrected. The van fish-tailed, Jason corrected. After several slides and corrections, the van seemed like it was going to gain control. I was confident that we were going to make it and then just like that.... we were in the ditch!!!

Actually it felt more like slow-motion. I saw the van sliding, heading for the ditch. I braced myself and then CRUNCH.... we were in it. ---On the other hand, our poor sleeping kids had no idea what was coming and had quite the rude awakening.


The pictures don't look nearly as dramatic as being inside actually felt. :)


When we were at a complete stop, we sat there for a moment. (It seemed like a minute, but I'm sure it was just seconds.) Then I noticed the engine revving high and smoke pouring in from the vent. I said to Jason, "Turn it off! Turn the engine off!" The smoke concerned me. I didn't know if it meant fire, so I yelled to the kids, "Get out of the van!"


They started whimpering, fussing and panicking,..."I can't find my shoes!"..."My door is stuck!"..."My glasses..I can't find my glasses!"


I remember saying, "Shoes. Coat. Get out!...Shoes. Coat. Get out!"


It was a deep ditch. And because we were almost completely on our side, gravity was working against us. The doors took extra effort to push open. I literally had to climb out of the passenger seat over the driver's side seat, to get out of the van. With much commotion and crying, we quickly made sure everyone got out and then evaluated our situation.

Hmmmm. It's about 12:30-1:00 in the morning. It's about 20 degrees. We're on some little, abandoned country road and have no idea where we are... or where we are going. If we called 911, we wouldn't know how to tell them to find us. There is no blood, no broken bones, no damage to anyone's property (but ours) and doesn't feel like an emergency. What should we do?

We called Nate and Cathy and told them we were in a ditch. They said they would come get us.


A few minutes later, we saw a car coming up the road. They stopped. We told them we were ok, but didn't know where we were. They didn't seem familiar with the area, so called someone to help. They also gave us the phone number to the local sheriff's office. They said they couldn't stay because they were on their way to work.


As they tried to make it up the icy hill, they slid backwards. After several attempts, they gave up and eventually drove carefully backwards to the bottom of the hill, turned around and went another way.


Jason called the local sheriff's office. He said he got an answering machine, that sounded like someone's home, so didn't leave a message. We had help on the way, so decided we just needed to sit tight.

I made the courageous journey, back into the smoke-filled car and found warmer shoes for myself, as well as coats, blankets and the lost glasses. --I checked out the broken back window. We think Taylee hit her head on it and broke the latch off. Taylee had a big knot on the side of her head. --Jason and I were surprisingly calm, but the kids were kinda freaking out (especially #1). We reminded them, "No one is badly hurt. We are all together. Help is on the way. We are ok."

Another man came by minutes later. We asked him to confirm where we were..he told us something slightly different from the first car. Great! How are we going to tell Nate and Cathy how to find us, if we don't know where we are?!

When he was on his way, we decided we probably should get back in the car. It was COLD! We let the van air-out a little (the kids were worried about toxic fumes)and then climbed in and sat sideways...kinda hanging on to our seats. We said a prayer of thanks. Thanks for our safety. Thanks for the passing cars. And thanks for help on the way. (We never saw another car, the whole time we were waiting. Heavenly Father sent 2 angel cars to give us an idea of where we were at.)

Jason suggested we sing songs. He sang a solo...mostly. :)

Many of us wanted to continue freaking out and worry about the slightest movement of the car. Some believed we just might tip all the way over. And some of us proclaimed it as, "the WORST thing that had EVER happened to them".

We kept back-and-forth phone contact with Cathy and Nate. Dad Smullin stayed at "homebase" and used his phone to "ping" our phone, to give them better directions on how to get to us.

The GPS got us into this mess...we'd use it to get us out. :)

We were NOT on the beaten path. I think it took about 1 1/2 to 2 hours for them to find us, but we were grateful for only a few bumps, bruises and cold fingers and toes.

It was nice to see familiar faces. Nate and Cathy drove up in their truck and Jared and J.C. in the Tahoe. We did a quick vehicle evaluation and decided NOT to try and pull it out, in the middle of nowhere, in the dark and cold, at 2-2:30am. We thought we would call insurance and a tow truck in the morning.


We transferred all of our stuff from our van to their truck and climbed into the warm vehicles. Ahhhh.... warmth.


By the time we got to the Olsen's house, told our story to Mom and Dad Smullin and settled in, it was 4:00am! It was nice to be there safe, out of the weather and with family.






In the morning, Jason contacted our insurance company and a local tow truck. Nate and Jason took off to meet the tow truck.

When reaching the scene, the tow truck driver asked if the police had been called. No. So then they called (and waited) for the police to show up.


When the officer arrived, he was instantly hostile. He got out of his car with his hand on his gun holster and yelled across the road to Jason, "Hey! Why didn't you call me last night!"


Jason tried to explain the situation. The officer was not in a listen mood. At some point the officer said, "When you don't report an accident, it makes me think you were drinking."

Uhhh, no.

Then he proceeded to tell Jason that he could ticket him for several things. He eventually cited Jason for "leaving the scene of an accident". What?!! We left our own van in a ditch. No serious injuries, no damage to other's property, we were off the road, out of the way of other vehicles....what?

Nate and Jason spent a good part of the day, towing the van, getting the van checked out by a local repair shop, and making phone calls back-and-forth with the insurance people.


It took a big chunk out of their family time. We are sooo appreciative of Nate and Cathy's generosity and kindness. Nate jumped right in and helped in any way needed. Sooo grateful for wonderful family that care about us.

Thanks again Nate and Cathy!

The rest of the story...

The officer said that the ticket could be cleared up fairly easily over the phone, since we were from out-of-state, but that was NOT the case. We were told we would have to come back to Utah and stand before a judge in CRIMINAL court. Because of the expense and time of travel, we continued calling the prosecutor, hoping something else could be arranged. Days and weeks past, before we finally got a hold of the prosecutor (Jason played A LOT of phone tag!). After giving Jason a hard time and interrogating him with questions about his driving record and the accident, he FINALLY dismissed the case. Whew.

BTW-Tiffany, thank you for giving us legal advice and being willing to come over and write up a report if needed. I felt relieved to know that you were here to help. Thank you, thank you, thank you.

Oh, I almost forgot to mention, our van is drivable!

The passenger doors are crunched and have to be slammed extra hard to shut and the front passenger outside handle is broken off (still can be opened from inside).... but it's drivable. We drove it home and have been driving it ever since. Even when the insurance adjuster declared it "totalled" we paid the deductible, then bought it back from the insurance company for $1,200, so we could have 2 working vehicles.

(Until Jason's truck decided to have problems with the radiator. Fixed that. And then the brakes went out!)


I feel a little self-conscious when driving my scraped up van, but most of all I am grateful that it's been paid for and runs. :) I'm also grateful for our safety and protection on that night. It could have been worse. I know we were blessed.

Thursday, December 1, 2011

The Stockings Were Hung

Once again, I participated in Crafaholic's Anonymous "Homemade Gift Exchange".

She does it twice a year, once before Christmas and once during the summer. It's really fun. You should try it.

This time I made a "Christmas Sock Advent Countdown".

I got the idea for the sock countdown here. There were over 100 activities to choose from. I picked my favorites then printed them off, cut them out and mounted them onto green cardstock.

After searching a number of stores (I think over 7!), I finally found some inexpensive Christmas socks at Walmart and Kmart. I didn't LOVE all of them, but was tired of searching.
My favorite socks were the red/white striped ones, with the green cuff. :)

I wanted to make it extra cute and more "homemade", so I painted the clothespins in festive Christmas colors.



Finally, I printed numbers off for the countdown and glued them to the clothespins.

I sent more than 25 activities and left a few cards blank, so she could customize the activities to her own family. I also suggested putting a little treat in the sock each day.

As it hung on the mantle, my kids asked if we could keep it.

Wish we could....it turned out cute. :)